The True Meaning of Valentine’s Day

The True Meaning of Valentine’s Day. Valentine’s Day or the Feast of Saint Valentine for this year comes up on February 14.  St. Valentine’s Day began as a liturgical celebration of one or more early Christian saints named Valentinus. A popular hagiographical account of Saint Valentine of Rome states that he was imprisoned and tortured for performing marriage ceremonies against the command of Emperor Claudius the second. There are legends surrounding Valentine’s actions while in prison.

The True Meaning of Valentine's Day
The True Meaning of Valentine’s Day

The True Meaning of Valentine’s Day – Valentine Day

One of the men who was to judge him in line with the Roman law at the time was a man called Asterius, whose daughter was blind. He was supposed to have prayed with and healed the young girl with such astonishing effect that Asterius himself became Christian as a result.  In the year 269 AD, Valentine was sentenced to a three-part execution of a beating, stoning, and finally decapitation all because of his stand for Christian marriage.

The story goes that the last words he wrote were in a note to Asterius’ daughter. He inspired today’s romantic missives by signing it, “from your Valentine”  for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry and for ministering to Christians who were persecuted under the Roman Empire. Valentine has come to be known as the patron saint of lovers

In the secular world, Valentine’s day is associated with romantic love. In 18th  century England, it evolved into an occasion in which lovers express their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering, confectionery and sending greeting cards. These days, unfortunately, valentine’s day has been turned into a celebration with those in the entertainment and sundry businesses.

The true essence of Valentine’s Day is true love. It is supposed to be a day when lovers, married couples, reaffirm their love and genuine affection for one another. It is not only for married couples; singles also partake in the celebration by spreading what is called Agape Love.

Valentine’s day should teach us about sacrifice. It is about nurturing our families and promoting the spirit of giving, sharing, and sacrificing. Like the first Valentine did by laying down his life so that couples may be united, and as Christ did by laying down his life for us to gain salvation, we must be ready to make meaningful sacrifices in life.

This also applies to marriage. Couples must be ready to make the necessary sacrifices for their marriage to work and this comes with lots of responsibilities. It comes with lots of up and down. It is not easy to maintain your commitment and your vows in marriage.

But most importantly, Valentine’s celebration should bring us closer to the source of true love, Jesus Christ. The Church frowns at a situation whereby secularism appears to trivialize such a very important event that should be a source of great joy to humanity.

A world devoid of true love would be an empty world. We need genuine love all over the world to heal the broken heart and to melt the heart of stones so that lasting peace may permeate the whole of humanity.


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